03 May Fertility
How many times have you heard of couples trying so hard for so long to get pregnant only to be disappointed when it doesn’t work out the way they planned it? They may become so upset, confused and disheartened that some even decide to stop trying.
It is then however when we hear of so many women becoming pregnant out of the blue.
You see, this very decision to “stop trying” actually allows the body to relax a lot more to the point where the body actually can conceive.
Apart from the physical process of conceiving a child there are also other factors to consider.
The human body has both a conscious and an unconscious aspect to it.
The conscious mind is the part that allows a person to think of what he/she wants to happen but the unconscious mind is the part that transforms that thought into a reality.
So if a person wants to get pregnant but the unconscious doesn’t hear that request then it can be very difficult for that reality to happen. I have seen quite a few people in my clinic who have had children before but could not seem to have another no matter how hard they tried.
“Trying very hard” being the operative phrase here.
If a woman for some reason doubts that she can get pregnant or even worries about that possibility, this information can become imprinted on the unconscious mind.
The most emotional thoughts you have go straight through to the unconscious mind.
So from this you can easily see that as pregnancy is such an emotionally charged event in a person’s life it is very easy to install the wrong information on that deeper mind.
If you are trying to get pregnant ask yourself this question.
Do you spend more time thinking about actually being pregnant or all the requirements for pregnancy to be successful and what if it doesn’t work?
Believe it or not most people are thinking about the latter and may not even realize it.
They may want to get pregnant consciously but due to any number of reasons their unconscious might not be working with the same information. This is why women can often find it difficult to conceive.
Please do not fear. This is very common and there is a solution.
All that you need to do is get what you want onto the deeper part of your mind, then the body has the best possible chance at achieving that goal.
We first need to find out what is going on at that deeper level and change any thoughts that may be competing with your desired outcome.
We then need to make sure you have all of your energy flowing correctly and in a balanced state so you can relax and allow the process to take place.
Life is energy and you need yours to build another human being inside of you.
Allow yourself the best possible chance.
Shift your thoughts from what might NOT ever happen to thoughts of what you want to happen. These thoughts should be about being pregnant and having a perfectly healthy baby in every respect.
Feed your body with good nutritious food.
Take time each day to visualize what it is you really want and treat yourself as if you are already pregnant, appreciate yourself and what you are trying to do.
I have had the absolute privilege of working with many women who thought they could never have a baby only to thankfully prove themselves wrong.
Never give up, there is always a way.